Monthly Archives: December 2014

Growing Larger: A Look at the Annunciation

37 For no word from God will ever fail.”38 “I am the Lord’s servant,” Mary answered. “May your word to me be fulfilled.” Then the angel left her.

Mary carried God. Jesus became human through Mary and the will of God. Jesus was truly human and truly Divine. Mary, a virgin, was truly human and truly obedient. Mary was the deliverer of God to the world, young inexperienced, yet trusting and faithful.

I see Mary as one who has pledged her virginity in faithfulness to God until her marriage with Joseph. That vow is important to her and of course to her family. Now stunningly she is visited by an angel – Gabriel himself – who tells her that she is to become pregnant via the Holy Spirit before her marriage to Joseph. The Bible does not say that she hesitated; it does say she was greatly troubled. Did her thoughts include: “wait, let me think about all this” or “what will my parents think?”, “what will Joseph say or do?” or “oh yeah! I could be stoned when people see me growing larger before my marriage”! All are thoughts that could have frightened her into a great panic. But Gabriel has already spoken peace to her heart perhaps not just because of the sudden surprise of his visitation, but maybe also to quiet any of these potential thoughts. He has told her he brings “good news for all people”, (Luke 2:10), so how can this be bad for Mary? She is a good Jewish girl awaiting the promised Messiah like her entire village and the whole Jewish world. Now she knows where and when He will come and she knows before anyone else.

She has been honored and blessed by God beyond human understanding. This is the knowledge that removes even the possibility of fear. God will take care of her and her situation and He has already thought of everything. (Just like He does for you and for me).

Luke’s account (1:26-38) also does not say that she wondered who would believe her story. Gabriel took care of that too by telling her about Elizabeth’s surprise and humanly impossible pregnancy. Strange things are happening and Mary knows that Elizabeth will understand, support and guide her. After the announcement by Gabriel, Mary wastes no time getting to Elizabeth.

Mary carried God in the form of a little baby boy that grew to be the One who sacrificed Himself for the sins of the whole world. Mary delivered Jesus to the world. Now He lives within all who accept His Lordship in their lives. How do we carry Him in this world? How do we deliver Him to those we encounter daily? Is it clear to others that Christ’s love is growing larger in our own hearts and lives every day?

As God cared for Mary, Joseph and the baby Jesus by keeping them safe from Herod’s sword and from every other possibility of harm, He does the same for us. He loves us and wants us to love Him and each other through whatever crisis life might throw at us.  Those who are martyred for their faith and those who meet tragic deaths on this earth are not abandoned by God.  He is with them before, during and after their transition into the heavenly realm.  He has given us a promise, “Never will I leave you, and never will I forsake you”. Hebrews 13:5. “No word from God will ever fail.” Luke 1: 37. Amen.


Mary and Elizabeth: A lesson in love and nurture

Who do you look up to and aspire to be like?

Who do you run to first when you need a sympathetic ear? Or when you need an understanding heart?

Whose advice do you value enough to go seek it out?

For Mary there was one answer: Elizabeth.

The angel came, Mary consented to let God’s will reign in her life and immediately she needs/wants to talk to Elizabeth. Something people thought was impossible is happening to Elizabeth. Something that defies the imagination is happening to Mary. They need to talk. A woman too old to conceive and carry a child is six months along. A woman almost too young has conceived of the Holy Spirit and is just pregnant. Two ends of the age spectrum separated by time and distance. Yet they are united by the God of their ancestors, of Abraham, Isaac, Joseph and more. There is really much that should separate them, yet what brings them together is more powerful than the unique circumstances which might isolate them. So Mary made the journey.

They not only talked, they sang praises to God! They were in close fellowship for almost three months. I can imagine them chatting over meal preparation, cutting the vegetables, preparing the bread, laughing and talking together making work seem like fun. Walking together to the well, one carries water to drink and the other carries the Water of Life. As the days pass, they walk a little slower, yet still with eager anticipation for the events yet to occur in their lives. It is a holy time of communion and mutual love and understanding not so different from our walk with the significant people in our lives.

The story of Mary and Elizabeth’s time together is a favorite of mine. I see them giving each other a very special gift – the gift of time. They took the time to talk about their common situations, about being pregnant and how that changed their lives. They may have talked about how to cope with those changes, and shared the joys, the concerns and the holy awe. These are things they might not have been comfortable saying to anyone else. Perhaps most important is the fact that Mary needs the nurture of this relationship and this fellowship with Elizabeth to help strengthen and prepare her for what lies ahead. Elizabeth’s home and heart is a safe place for Mary to rest as they enjoy their mutual fellowship and support.

We all have a desire at times to share things with the people we love. Special Joys and happy times are meant to be shared. So are concerns and cares. God places people in our lives for just such times as these;   we really are His gifts to each other. Our Father’s love for us is so great that He gives us what we need even when we don’t know what we need.

Gifts that give back – all year long

It’s the most wonderful time of the year, multiple songs, books and poems assure us this is true.

One very important reason for this is that it is a time of year when our thoughts and efforts tend to consider others before ourselves.  We busily plan parties, events, celebrations, and still find time to give our money, and energy to a special charity.

We think of the the true meaning of Christmas when we see nativity scenes or attend church.  But this season of the year is more than just a special time; it is more than just having a little time off with the family.  It is a way of thinking and feeling and of BEING in the world.  And it can last all year.

Do we give gifts to see the sparkle in the eyes of the recipient?  Do we give in hopes of making a child go crazy with excitement?  Do we give to make someone smile or laugh?  Do others look at your gift or use your gift the rest of the year with a special fondness for you the giver?  Do we give the gift that encourages and assures someone that we care and that we will be there for him or her through thick or thin?

God did.

Take a moment to recall how it feels when someone really gets the significance of a gift you have chosen specifically for them.  You know the one that jumped off the shelf into your arms screeming your friend or loved one’s name?  And then you wrapped it nicely and watched the reaction when it was opened….priceless.

That feeling comes from giving thoughtfully.

it is a tiny peak into the way God feels when He sees us receive the gift of a baby born in humble circumstances and when we pick that child up and place Him in our hearts to live – well I believe that brings God great JOY!

in this busy time of year let us remember to show our thanks for the most wonderful gift we could ever receive.  Let that spirit of thanksgiving for God’s special gift guide our thoughts words and deeds this Christmas and this year.

I found this list of 8 ideas for gifts that cost nothing, yet may mean everything to someone.  Feel free to add your own ideas to this list and share!

  • The gift of Listening:  but you must really listen.  No interruption, no daydreaming,no planning your response.  Just listening.
  • The gift of Affection:  Be generous with appropriate hugs, kisses, and pats on the back.  Let these small aactions demonstrate theh love you have for family and friends. (I had a friend tell me once that hugs can be restorative.)
  • The gift of Laughter:  Clip cartoons. Share articles and funny stories.  Your gift will say, “I love to laugh with you.”
  • The gift of a Written Note:  It can be a simple “Thanks for the help” note or a full sonnet.  A brief, handwritten note may be remembered for a lifetime, and may even change a life.  (I have boxes of notes colleted over the years from friends and family that mean a lot to me even today when I go back and read them again.  These notes show where the joys and concerns of life have been shared with significant others.  Someone will have to throw them out when I die, but until then, they have a special set of shoe boxes to occupy.)
  • The gift of a Compliment: A simple and sincere, “You look great in red,” “You did a super job” or “That was a wonderful meal” can make someone’s day. (I know this seems unimportant, but it even makes me smile when someone notices my hair cut!)
  • The Gift of a favor:  Every day, go out of your way to do something kind.
  • The gift of Solitude:  There are times when we want nothing better than to be left alone.  Be sensitive to those times and give the gift of solitude to others.
  • The gift of a Cheerful Disposition:  The easiest way to feel good is to extend a kind word to someone, really it’s not that hard to say, Hello or Thank You.